Yeah, I know I am coming to this party a little later than everyone else, but wow.
Just wow. (If you can’t be bothered reading the text, just look at the video at the bottom.)
Mary Hvizda first walked into the Coalition Drum Shop (what an appropriate name!) a few years ago. Surprised that they let her play, employees recorded her the other day. The results are something else and give hope to all of us who’ve hit 40 and are wondering what the next 25 years hold in prospect.
WKBT(News 8000) in La Crosse reported that 63-year old Mary Hvizda of Onalaska has been drumming since she was 15:
“I was having a lot of fun,” said Hvizda. “I really was.”
Her love for the drums started many years ago at the age of 15, when she was inspired by her brother to pick up a pair of sticks.
“He was a drummer and I thought I’d really love to play and drum, and that was my chance,” said Hvizda.
She joined the Chantells later that year. They were the first all-girl rock band in La Crosse — pioneers in a male-dominated industry.
“It really took a lot of tolerance with the customers, or other male musicians, to hang in there and to just keep going if they laughed at us or made fun of us,” said Hvizda.
She still plays her old cassette tapes from time to time, as a reminder of life on the road.
“It was like every weekend and sometimes it was like five nights a week, and all kind of locally you know, but I loved it,” said Hvizda.
But Chantells was just the beginning. During the next 25 years, she played in nearly a dozen bands, both in rock and country western.
Then, in about 1990, the band On the Road Again broke up. It would be the last group she’d play with.
“I couldn’t find no other bands to play with, and then I did quit,” said Hvizda.
Soon after, Hvizda sold her last drum set, but she never really lost her love for playing.
“I still kind of like to go to the music store and play a drum set, and then that’s it,” said Hvizda. “My music urge has been satisfied.”
Mary doesn’t have a computer and up until a few days ago, she had no idea what YouTube even was.
“It makes me proud to think that people still think I’m somewhat good and still think I’m still something they’re interested in watching,” said Hvizda.
As for the nickname, “Grandma Drummer” she said that may also take a little getting used to.
“It’s different,” said Hvizda. “I can’t get used to being called Grandma. I’ve never had children of my own and I never got married, but I am 63 and that is certainly grandma’s age,” she laughed.
Throughout her career, Hvizda only played at local bars and high school dances around La Crosse County. She said if there was anyone past or present that she’d love to play for, Merle Haggard, Willie Nelson, Loretta Lynn or Reba McEntire.
The Coalition Drum Store is giving Mary her very own electronic drum set. It will be delivered this Monday.